Relationship update

Brad came by the house tonight and we were able to sync on progress and some ideas for improvement. We also discussed relationships

As you may recall from my previous post (Relationship (mis)management) I had a phone call that ended my current LTR due to her perceived need for a commitment. Brad's advice was gold - first, girls usually do this when some event happens in their life or a friends life that affects relationships (a girlfriend of hers is having commitment issues with her man friend, for example.) First step - discredit the friend with a series of questions about the friends expertise and long term success in relationships, and discredit her methods of getting a man to commit (since it isn't working for her, this isn't challenging.) Step two - Suggest that we should get together to reconnect. Girls love to reconnect.

10 minutes after this discussion, I get an IM from the lady friend asking if we can talk. We did. And have agreed to get together to reconnect