Wednesday, February 11, 2009

FR: Working a Restaurant

There is a local restaurant in which I will eat many meals over the next year. Conveniently, they hire hot girls to work there. I hesitated to game them, since this is a place that I will spend a lot of time, so I discussed it with Brad. His advice was game on, full speed ahead... so I did

Some background: I was here a week ago and chatted up one of the wait staff with just general conversation. I was open and social and fun, and she was obviously interested in me. But I didn't go for a number because of the above mentioned concern. So today when I walked in, I already knew one of the staff by name (The names have been changed to protect the guilty)

Hey Target, I'll just grab my usual table, OK? Sure, I'll be right there. So I sit down with my wing, and we start chatting. Target walks up with menus and asks for drinks and we order. I didn't want to game her too hard, so I'm just friendly and ask about her weekend, and she shares a bit about it. Then back to the kitchen

Next time out, I ask her if she makes a ton of money working here. Ha ha, not so much. Hmm, OK. Are you smart? Oh yeah, I'm smart. Cool... cuz I only like girls who are smart/hot/rich. She laughs, and starts qualifying herself really hard, talking about her ambitions with a business and her dancing. Oh, so you're ambitious, that's cool. And off she goes again...

Next time around, I comment about her dancing... and as she starts talking about it, I cut her off and tell a story about a girl I used to date back home that also did some dancing (I understand your world) and how she had some drama with it. Target laughs and asks some questions and laughs some more.

Now across the restaurant this other waitress (who is smoking hot) looks at me, does a really obvious double take, and then tries to hide a little smile that is forming. My look is a bit bright and grabs attention, with some brightly dyed hair. A few minutes later, she comes over to our table to see if we need anything, and I do sexy shoe girl on her. She laughs, and then our table is interrupted by another friend of ours stopping by to say hi, so I don't finish the opener and instead put all of my attention on the friend. So Girl#2 leaves (but comes back later to bring water)

A bit later, Girl #3 walks by, does a double take, and compliments me on my hair. I genuinely like her clothes, so I return the compliment, and she walks closer to talk with us:
Girl#3 - Are you guys in a band? You have that look. I'm in a band
Me - I am actually, but you probably haven't heard of us. We are a bit obscure. Have you heard of... The Rolling Stones?
Girl #3 - (laughs)
Me - Actually, I'm not really in a band, but all of my friends are. I just sleep on their couches and steal all of their drugs. Its a great way to live. But maybe you and I should start a band
Girl #3 - Oh, I'm already in 8 bands
Me - That's cool. I have 8 girlfriends. I've been thinking about adding a ninth, and you seem kinda cool. Maybe I could slot you in as girlfriend #9
Girl #3 - (laughs) Oh, I'm married
Me - No problem. We need a designated driver when we go on our first date. Maybe he can join us
Girl #3 - (laughs more) You are funny. I'll be back later


Shortly after this, the target returns and says to Girl #3 that she is leaving soon, so I tell her to come closer. She comes over and leans down next to me... So, you seem kinda cool (Thanks!) and I think we should spend some time together (OK!) so give me your number and we'll work something out. (# close)

I ask her what her schedule is like, and she spells it all out for me, and then she says "Hey, I can bring you to blah blah blah." So we have a specific event to go to and a specific day. Hmmm, I think I can do that, so I'll call you to finalize details. You remember my name right? She doesn't, so I pretend to be indignant (After all we have been through together!), and she touches me and apologizes. I won't forget again, I promise. And with that beautiful moment behind us, I leave

Overall, it was a bit of warm approach, and I knew the attraction was there. It was in the day and she was working, so I didn't game super hard, and instead did some early qualification,a nd then general comfort and rapport building, but flirted with the other girls to build up some social proof

Overall:
# close - 1

1 comment:

  1. Yeah, not only did all three waitresses come by, but a few times there were two waitresses there at once. Like they were trying to AFOG each other, haha.

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