We meet Brad at the house, and Joker, Mr. S, and I share our personal assessment of the current status of our game. I am getting better at relationship management, which is crucial to keep a rotation going. I have very little approach anxiety anymore. But I still speak softly at times, and my facial expressions and gestures are more timid. Brad said that my clothes and look are bigger than my personality. This contrast may create a negative impression with girls (or maybe not.) But my goal for tonight is be be loud and use big gestures, to add more emotion and drama to my expressions and reactions. I need more disappointment that it isn't really the horse girl. I need more excitement that it could be her. I need more appreciation for receiving forgiveness. Etc...
Some people are hungry, so we all sit down to eat in a bar. I see hot girls around us, and it gives me anxiety to not approach them. Several times I consider getting up and approaching, but instead I sit. I start yawning. Finally, dinner is done and Brad gives a demo. I go stand next to him and listen for awhile, then I sit down at the table and listen closer
I didn't hear the opener, but I believe it was situational. He sits. Shedding Cat... Do you have one? Reads fashion of some people in the room. 8 girlfriends. big words/SAT. # close. The total set was over 40 minutes. It was super low speed game, with lots of references back to previous material, and not a lot of kino. Brad had attraction the second he sat down, and was able to get a ton of compliance and laughter out of these girls. They both loved him. I noticed that even though it was high octane material, it was generally a chill, low energy interaction, and slow paced.
49. I open a set in the parking lot. Horse Girl. I'm speaking LOUDLY. It feels weird, but manageable. She doesn't want to hug me, but I persist and she agrees to a weak one-handed hug. Then they walk away. (C<5) Brad observes, and says to use bigger gestures and facial expressions
50. Two girls in the parking lot, one chubby and the other HOT!!! I say to the chubby girl, do you know this girl? She does... ok, check this out. Do you like horses? Hug! Lots of kino. She loves me. They start to leave, I pull them back. Another friend is going to get in a fight and pulls them away. (C<5)
51. Jake is doing a demo, and I am standing with my back turned to them. These two girls walk up to get to their friends, but can't and are now standing 6 inches from my face. Wow, you are a close talker!, I say. We need to get to our friends. Sorry, this area of the bar is closed. It is for gentlemen only. Unless you know the secret handshake. She confesses to forgetting it. I ask if she is trustworthy, would she lie to me. She says no. So I teach her a stupid secret handshake. She remembers it, so I tell her she seems smart. Smart tests. Smart/Hot/Rich. She plays soccer. I confess to sucking at soccer, and exaggerate my feebleness so it is funny (I am in good shape.) I have to go to the bathroom, so I do, but not before getting her #. I did this for practice, because I have no interest in calling this girl (# close)
52. We now leave to another bar, and Jake P says open the first set you see. So I do. They aren't hot, and don't too much appreciate being called a horse girl. Smart tests are a bit like adding insult to injury. Poor calibration is at play here... (B) Jake tells me I need to open hotter girls :)
53. Two girls at the bar. Horse Girl. They are super stoic, but then start laughing like crazy when I say You look just like her. We all laugh for a bit. Then I apologize and they crack up again. They have english accents, so I guess they are from Korea. This never seems to have any benefit, so I'm going to drop this from my routine stack. They are back turning me now, and I leave (C<5)
54. A girl opens me and asks if she knows me. I pull up her sunglasses, and look at her, and say I think I know you too... and go into Sexy Shoes. She keeps cutting it, and I keep going back to it. She leaves. Jake says that if it isn't working, just jump to the next thread. And... she opened me... I don't need to open her, so just go into attract material. (C<5) Jake also tells me that I showed too much interest too early. I should have made her work more for it
55. A girl walks past me. I look at her like I know her. She looks at me the same way. Horse girl. I don't think I got the hug. Brad Pitt. She is Heather Fox. I role play that, and she says, No, I'm not really her, I just pretended to be her because you said Brad Pitt. Yeah, no shit. Role play dies. She back turns me. I tell her I need to take my turtle for a walk so I gotta go. (C<5)
We leave this bar.
56. Out on the street there are two really hot girls dressed like skanks. Joker and I both see them and start walking towards them. He starts running, so I start running. I open them first, haha! Horse Girl. She loves it, and plays along and gives me a huge hug. The friend is answering Jokers questions, but is intently focused on getting to some end destination. This girl is holding my hand, touching me, hugging me. And then... the other girl pulls her off into the sunset. Her energy level was really high and I think I should have gone for the make out right there on the spot(C<5)
57. Another girl is walking very fast on the other side of the street. I run across the street to intercept her. Horse Girl. She listens for 5 seconds, and then says she really has to go, she is late. And she apologizes profusely and wishes me a great evening. Whatever :) (B) (The most friendly blowout ever)
58. Into another bar. A 4-set at the door, 3 girls one guy. Horse Girl. She is shit testing me like crazy... you gotta work on better pickup lines. I can't hear her very well. That's cool, how many shoes do you own? I cut that thread too. She asks me how old I am. Dirty old man. I was speaking into her ear, and she is now sitting with her back to me. I could have and should have starting kissing her neck at this point. I spin her around to face back at me, and she says something like You lost your window! and spins back around. Again, I should have physically moved her as she responded well to that. Instead, I left (C<5)
The next thing Joker, Mr. S, and I see, is Brad pulling a girl by the hand towards the bathroom. It is a 4 minute bathroom pull! The 3 of us are in the corner in the back of the bar, giving each other high fives and dancing out of joy! It really is possible! Hahahaha!!!!!
59. In the back of the bar, I see a girl I though I saw Brad talking to earlier with a group of his friends, so I assumed she was part of his social circle. Not wanting to game too hard, I asked if she knew Brad. She was coy, and says to me that she was really looking to do a bump. I don't use drugs, so I just said, yeah cool, you should do that. She is feeling a little stupid for asking like that, and she says so. It's cool, I used to do that too, but now I am high on life! She says she is like that most times, and hasn't used coke in two years (she is backtracking.) I am so embarassed!, she says. Its all good, let me share something embarassing with you too. I say into her ear, I love pussy! She immediately says I have a boyfriend. Its ok, I just wanted to tell you I love pussy. Again, she says, I have a boyfriend. So I mimic her earlier statement, Oh, I feel so stupid for sharing that with you! I am so embarrassed! She laughs and touches me. Now a guy comes over and pulls her away (C>5)
The night is over, and we go to pickup the cars. The girl from set #51 is in the parking lot, so I chat with her a little bit. But that fades out as I'm not really interested in her, and we all head back home
I think this is my worst workshop night in terms of total attraction and getting close to getting laid, but I did do well with approaching some hot girls and with speaking loudly. I was in some loud venues, and still managed to hear and be heard.
B - 2
C<5 - 7
C>5 - 1
# - 1
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