Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Monday night

I went out to meet Driver and Poker Face. I was late in getting out, and realized that my balls were covered with pussy juice, so I just washed them in the sink and ran out the door

I spent a good hour talking with Driver about my history while some guy kept trying to talk to me about random shit. I told him dude, I'm trying to have an important conversation. Give me 5 minutes of peace here. He is like, OK cool, I'll wait. Weird

The venue has a lot of girls I've opened before and I don't open any of them again. A few girls come up and talk to me, but none of them are hot

Poker Face opened a girl with Horse Girl earlier in the night, and she didn't like it. She later comes up to Driver and me and is kind of angry. "Are you telling your friend to say random shit to girls and laughing at him. That's not cool." So she gives us a walk through of her reaction to horse girl. I keep busting her frame and asking if she was teased as a kid. Eventually she talks about her huge tits and how the only teasing she got was people trying to throw things down her shirt. Then she walks off

50. I did one set tonight. Walking outside, there is a circle of 5 girls. I hear one of them say one of the girls is looking for some cock. I walk into the circle, and say "Sorry ladies, there is none of that around here." They laugh. I introduce myself to them and one of the girls is kind of bitchy right from the start. Poker Face comes in, tries to pick up one of the girls, and she donkey kicks him in the nuts. Ouch. I try to direct the set, and say "Use your words, not your hands", treating her like a preschool kid. The bitchy girl gets even bitchier and starts mouthing off.

My initial reaction is fuck this. This is not the right reaction. It turns into bitchy girl just saying go away.

I think I should have defused this and been more of a leader, but honestly I'm not really sure the best way to handle it. Any ideas? What is the best way to defuse bitchy girls?

Monday, July 20, 2009

LR HB_B&N

I met this girl at Barnes & Noble two days ago (set 41), and we lined up a Day 2 for today via text. She has a little bit of a Drew Barrymore look, but with piercings and tattoos

She is supposed to swing by my place and then we'll roll out for an adventure date from there. That didn't work out because of some car coordination issues with her family, so I roll with the punches and go to pick her up at her place. She is outside when I arrive and off we go

First, I tell her I forgot something at my place and bring her by, give her a tour, push her into the LoveSac, and then head out

There is a place I love that has great raw vegan mylkshakes. The chocolate ones are fantastic, just ask Jake P. So we have chocolate shakes, and I'm tight with the waitress so she hugs me when we arrive and places our order ahead of everybody elses. It is nice to have friends. All of the outdoor seating is setup where we would sit across from each other, which happened for about 15 seconds, until I walked around, picked her chair up (with her still on it) and set it down next to me.

The whole drive to and from, and partly during the mylkshake ingestion, she drops in bits and pieces about her being bisexual since she was 12, how she has had sex with girls including 3-somes (3 girls), but that she has never met a girl she would like a relationship with. She talked a little bit about a girl that she is seeing now on and off, but they haven't had sex yet because neither one of them is leading and making it happen. We talk a little about how a man would have just owned it and fucked her already. She agrees. She also told a story about a guy she works with who was fucking a girl that pissed on him and freaked him out. She also told me about how her sister won't masturbate because she thinks its gross, but she'll stick 4 fingers up her boyfriends ass. Clearly, she is comfortable with sexual topics. The whole time she is using words like hook-up, as opposed to the word relationship.

We drive back towards my place and I stop off at a park in Beverly Hills to show her some sculptures that I love, and this really cool ficus tree, and then we make out. My mother recently asked me if I was gay (ha!) and I told her this story. As we walked back to my car she said she could let me Mom know that she is convinced I'm pure hetero. :)

Without making any reasons why, I just go back to my place. I ask her what her favorite movie is, put in in the dvd player on the TV in my room and start escalating. There is zero LMR. We fucked, drank some water, and watched some of the movie. Then I went down on her and made her cum like crazy, and then bent her over and talked dirty to her while I fucked her really hard. Later she said her kidneys hurt :)

I just dropped her off. This could be the start of something good. I need to setup a threesome with this girl

Sunday night approaches

Went to Crown Bar with the promoters. Met the door guy for future reference

We arrived early and there was an open vodka bar. So true to my non-toxic life style, I had two vodka sodas with fresh lime. Yummy. I was definitely buzzed.

I winged Dylan Mackay on a couple sets that went really well. Dylan is back in action and is definitely knocking shit out of the park.

44. Walked into Dylan's set with 3 girls at the bar. Dylan introduces me as a rock star. I start chatting to the girl that appeared to be getting the least attention from Dylan and we split the set in two. This chic has a stripper name and she talks about how she is lesbian and dates strippers. So I share a story about how I recently had sex with a fetish model in a piercing chair at a piercing studio, and it was captured on the security camera. And how we watched that tape while having sex again. She thought that was pretty hot, and is telling me strip clubs to go to in Sacramento. I tell her I don't go to strip clubs because I don't need to pay for girls, but tell a story about a really nasty strip club in Austin Texas that I went to with coworkers once. I didn't even want to sit on the furniture, that's how nasty it was. We start talking about vaginas, and I do secret spots for her. She tells Dylan that I taught her things she didn't now, and Dylan said, "Yeah, that guy knows his shit!" Nice! She has to go to the bathroom, but we kiss before she goes and I slap her ass. She comes back and grabs my ass, and I slap her ass. They are leaving, so I get the # and we make out for a couple minutes. (# / k)


45. Dylan is in another set, a seated 6 set. I go in, and one of the girls immediately says "Can I get my picture with you?!" Can you say presence? So I pick her up in my arms because she weighs like 80 pounds for picture 1, and then flip her up side down and act like I'm licking her pussy for picture 2. Then I sit down in the middle of 4 of the girls. The girl in the photos is married and is Thai. We vibed on some of my Thailand travels. The other girls all introduce themselves and we chat for a long time. Dylan takes off, and none of these girls are being very responsive to sexual innuendo. I tell them I'm going to go help some of my friends meet girls and I'll be back later. (C>5) I did come back later, and they tell me they noticed me with a couple of hoes, with big smiles on their faces and high fives. Odd

46. There is a patio area, and there are two cute girls standing near the door. Horse Girl. It isn't her. We chat for a couple minutes, but it feels off and the girls wander off (C<5)

47. A girl is leaning against the bar with her arms crossed. I cross my arms too and try to look really bored. I open her with Quality Control.

48. A girl is walking by, and I open her with Sex Last Week. She loves it, but it doesn't hook. I try to physically hold her in place but she walks off (B)

49. I open the hottest girl I see in the bar with Sex Last Week. She yells, we did not have sex, and then walks off. 10 seconds later, she grabs the back of my head and pushes me. Haha (B)

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Saturday day game

After sleeping in and lounging around, basking in laziness, I met up with Poker Face for some day game. I had never been to the Hollywood / Highland Mall, so we started there.


40. Young girl standing by herself. Hi, how many shoes do you own? She looked a little confused, and then says "I... French..." and looks a little scared. Then some young kid comes up to her and starts speaking french and pointing inside a store, and she goes off with him. (B)


There isn't much else around the mall, as it is mostly really young kids, so we head off to the Grove

41. Inside B&N, there is a cute young girl checking out magazines. She is continually hanging out near us, which is a sure IOI, so I go in. Horse Girl. She plays along spectacularly, and we hug our forgiveness. It isn't her, since she is from Texas, but she is happy to forgive anyway. I ask if she says Reckon. Nope, but she says y'all a lot. And willy nilly. She has a tattoo, and we talk about that a bit, as far as the symbolism in it, which reveals her age. 22. She asks how old I am. I'm really old, 35. And I'm dirty. I loved her response... somehow, when you are a cute young girl, it is more acceptable to be dirty. Nice. I tell her maybe we can hang out then. She used to be shy, but got a street promotion job for a few months and that helped her work through it. I share a story about a speech I gave in high school, and she grabs the story and runs with it. Essentially, people in the audience didn't know if I was nude or not as I was standing behind a podium. She suggested maybe I was wearing a banana thong. I go into the story about eating mushrooms off cow poo, and she knows people that do just that, so we share stories. A bunch of her friends back in Texas became big druggies after she moved away. I start to scope logistics... she is here with her Mom, and they are going to go do some things together. The Mom eventually comes over and says hello. She is a pin-up model / fetish model. I almost opened her earlier :) We exchange numbers (#) This girl was witty and fun, I hope this works out


42. A girl with pink hair is sitting next to a woman who is wearing a pink shirt. I just stand next to her and bump her, so she notices me with my pink hair. We vibe just based on that. We talk about what they are doing at the mall, how this is her mom, where my family lives. They are going to go to a movie, and they leave to do that. I let them go without asking for the number, which was a bit silly of me, yeah? (C>5)

43. 3 girls standing around. Hey, do you like horses? She really does, she grew up riding horses. She will forgive me though. A guy comes into the group, and they are going to a movie. The horse girl says, well, it was nice to meet you. I like that comment. It cracks me up. I roll out (C<5)


I was also supposed to go out Saturday night, but I pretty much passed out from running around in the sun for a few hours. 10 hours of sleep later and I feel like sleeping with half of LA. The female half

Saturday, July 18, 2009

Back in LA! Friday

We made some dinner reservations at a sweet club in Hollywood
They had a free vodka bar until 10, so I got in a couple drinks


38. Right when we sat down for dinner, the waitress tells me she remembers me and describes some things we talked about last week. Each time she comes by, Mr. S and I are tag teasing the waitress with some generally sexual stuff.

She calls me sir. I call her ma'am. Wait, ma'am is something you call an old lady. What could I call you? She suggests lady. OK, but are you a lady? (said in sexual voice) Well, maybe not after a few tequila shots. I thought so! We vibe more each time she comes back around

I go for the number exchange, and she says she has to get her phone. She turns around, digs it out from a "secret spot" and then turns back around. I act shocked that she had the phone hidden on her person, and then get this knowing look in my eye, and smell the phone. She loved it (#)

I delayed writing up the rest of this evening, and I am totally blanking on what happened later
I know I did another 10 sets or so, all of which were fairly short

I had a chat with Tyler Durden for awhile, and he said he's seen me out a few times and every time he sees me in set that I look solid. Thanks!

39. I open a mixed 2-set with Oprah Winfrey. The guy says hey, I know Tyler Durden, that's a nice opener. Mr. S and I both kind of roll with it, and are like "Fight Club! I love that movie"
The guy says, have you read The Game? The girl says "I love that movie!" Haha. The guy leaves, and generally looks frustrated, and this chic is super into Mr. S. I talk to TD later, and he says the guy came up to him asking for advice, and he was like "dude, you lost. move on"

Friday, July 17, 2009

Thursday in Seattle

Seattle is pretty lame for game. I'm a poet and don't know it.
I arrive at my fav game bar at 10 pm. It is closed. Closed!
So I walk across the street. I'm feeling a little anxiety. No, a lot of anxiety. I haven't really been out solo in awhile, and I'm checking out new venues that are mostly filled with dudes. What's the solution? Warmup!

36. I see two girls outside smoking. I start to open them with horse girl, and one of them asks me before I can speak a word, "don't I know you from somewhere?" I chat both of them up until they finish smoking, and they decide to go back to their outdoor seating area where they are having dinner and drinks. A few minutes later I open them again, and introduce myself to the 3rd person in their group... a Mom. She loves me. She keeps laughing at everything I say and touching me. I get some Thursday in Seattle venue advice from them, and move on. I'm supposed to meet up with some friends I haven't seen in several months (C>5)

37. I walk inside a bar I have been to once before, and wait for my friends to arrive. I do a walkthrough and there is really only one set. I sit next to her at the bar, and I hear somebody sitting next to her say "Isn't that (persons name) from that band (bands name.) She says back, I don't know, and then turns to me and starts gaming me. She asks my name, and I say the band persons first name. She asks what I'm doing in town. Work. What do you do for work? She is totally interviewing me, and kino'ing me. I play a little resistance. I don't quite answer, and ask about some wine she is drinking, if it is good. She says she comes here a lot, and recommends a white wine. I tell her I prefer red. She definitely prefers white, so I disqualify her for that. She tries harder. So... were you doing a show here? I really don't care if people are in a band, they are just normal people. I tell her that I'm not really in a band, I'm a male stripper. That's great, because she really is a female stripper. She is now practically sitting in my lap, and I am rubbing her back and the back of her neck. My friends walk in, touch my shoulder to let me know that they are there, and then sit back and watch the show. Another stripper is nearby, and it is her birthday soon, so they are celebrating, but need to go back to work. My girl tells me we need to meet up later, and I say if it is meant to happen it will happen. Give me your number. I don't know if she was trying to pull me to her work or not. So we do the # exchange, and then I tell her to kiss me. She gives me a weak little kiss on the side of the mouth and then I let her go and go chat with my old friends

I text her later, but no response


I had a couple hours of good chatting with my friends and catching up, then I hit the sack. Peace out

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Bar time with the boyz

I'm up in Seattle, hanging out with some coworkers and friends/business partners. We hang out for a few hours drinking wine, and then move out to another bar with a hot waitstaff.



There are some expectations on the part of these people that I am the man. Many of them are married and think that I have wicked game. So of course I do my best to rise to the occasion. However, it is a Tuesday night in Bellevue, WA, so I do what I can



32. Seated 4-set. They are all older than dirt and married with kids. One of them has a kid older than girls I am fucking. I open with quality control. I cold read them. The spokesperson for the group tells me I have balls of steel to sit down at a table of 4 married women. Yup. I do. The conversation is generally free flow, with one of the women asking me what I do, again and again. I rebuff her each time. None of these women is going to be going home with me tonight, so I'm playing with them. I call them the real housewives of the OC. The really quiet one, I start to get sexual with. I use the word cock, and she is taken aback. So I use it again. They are all getting ready to leave, so now my friends and I have a table to use in a packed bar. I hug them all good-bye (C>5)



33. I open a mixed 2-set at the bar with Oprah. The dude is like, I hate Oprah, my wife watches her all the time. The chic asks, where are you going with this? Some other dude says, yeah, where are you going with this. I'm not into the challenges. I chat with the second dude a bit then he takes off (B)



34. I sit down at a table of 6 women, all older than 40. They are Argentinian, and sitting at a table next to their husbands. I chat with them for about 10 minutes, and then just leave (C>5)



At this point, there are no sets. There are about 4 women in the bar that don't work there. 1 of them is making out with a guy. 1 of them is in a hyper kino session with a guy. And two of them look like my Dad.



35. 4 girls arrive and sit down. I open them with quality control. I cold read them... the spokesperson, the shy girl, the mother hen, and the trouble maker. I'm spot on. The mother hen eventually says, it was nice to meet you. I tease her for trying to get rid of me. I chat with the other girls for another 5 minutes, and then leave. I wouldn't fuck any of these girls with Joker's dick. I'm at the table next to them, and I hear the mother hen say "I should have said fuck off." So I turn around and talk to them some more, and say it is really cute how girls in Seattle who are 3's or 4's sometimes act like they are 7's or 8's. Did that get me any closer to getting laid? Nope. But in my current enebriated (sp?) state, I thought it was funny as hell (C>5)

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

LR: HBFetishModel

I previously wrote about an encounter with a fetish model I met when first moving to LA.

A month and a half goes by, where one or the other of us is out of town. We agree we want to meetup, but it isn't happening. We have plans to hang out, she calls an hour ahead of time and backs out. I ignore her for a week, and she texts me apologizing for cancelling on me and saying she does want to hang out. I do a double flake reversal, and say I'm going to be in her neighborhood that night anyway. So a full 5 months after meeting, we meet up for the first time

I pick her up from her work at 9 pm, and we roll out to the beach. We walk along the sand and talk. The moon is glowing red, and the stars are glowing brightly. We walk out on a pier and observe all the people fishing. Then we head back to the beach and hang out on a lifeguard stand a bit. Logistics are bad. We can't go to her place (parents) and I live an hour away. So I just start escalating right there. There is zero resistance, and I just pull up her skirt, pull down her stockings, and then push her onto my jacket on the sand. We go at it right there on the beach

Afterwards, we walk back to my car and go at it again in the passenger seat. There is now sand all over my car.

Then I drive her back to her work and park next to her car. I open the back door of her SUV, push her in, and then hop in behind her and close the door. I'm laying down and she starts blowing me. A car pulls into the parking lot, and she just says "I gotta see if this is a cop." She pops her head up, confirms it isn't a cop, and then goes right back to work. Bless her heart. Her mom also calls while my cock is down her throat and she doesn't bat an eyelash

There was some pretty interesting commentary this evening. Some highlights:
Nomad: I'm going to do really naughty things to you.
HB: I fucking hope so

HB: I want to feel your cum down my throat

HB: Oh god, I love your tongue

We part ways, with her saying "You are pretty awesome."




2 weeks later we meet up again. She had already flaked on me one more time. Once again I double flake reversal

Again I meet up with her at her work. It is a piercing / tattoo studio. She is the last person there, and I need to use the restroom, so she unlocks the store and lets me in. When I come out of the bathroom, I push her into the tattoo chair and climb on top of her. She is wearing a long skirt with a zipper up the side, so I unzip and slide my hand up her thighs to discover she is freshly shaven and not wearing panties. I throw on a condom and start railing on her in the chair, and then turn her around and ride her doggy style while pulling her hair and slapping her on the ass. At one point, she kind of pauses, and then says "Oh, this is on tape!" The security cameras have been capturing everything. Sweet. I ask for a copy of the tape, but only her boss has access

We then roll down to the beach again, and have a short walk. We find an area about 50 feet from some people sitting around a bonfire singing Michael Jackson songs. I specifically recall hearing Man in the Mirror. I drop to my knees and start eating her pussy, and then tell her to get on her knees and turn around and I ride her again.

She is really petite and has a sweet ass. Her body type is just the way I like it. And she is naughty.


I drive her back to her car, and tell her next time she needs to come up to Hollywood to hang with me

Areas of Focus for Nomad

I received a lot of great feedback at this workshop. Here are some things that I need to actively work on to bring my game to the next level

My look is solid. Women and Men open me all the time. Each time I get opened by a woman, I should be getting laid. Period. In the past, when girls come up and touch me, I would say something to the effect of "You need to earn that." Wrong. I should grab them by the back of the neck, and say "Well hello little girl" in a sensual voice. Oh that is so cute that you made up that reason to come talk to me.


Overall, I need to be more sexual / sensual. Example Jake P conversation:
HB: I'm an accountant
Jake: Oh yeah? (said in seductive voice)
HB: Ooh, you are dirty


Hard game. See previous post on the girl that went sexual immediately as a means of frame control and to intimidate guys. I joke around with girls, but I need to very seriously disqualify these women. I am hot shit, and I only accept women in my life that are of high quality. If I continue to joke and be playful about sexuality, I will never get these really hot / high quality girls. The reason you see a fat ugly guy with a really beautiful women is because they are uber-confident and have sick frame control

Workshop Saturday

First, we did a little day game down at Venice Beach. I think the general conclusion is that Venice Beach is not the best day game location, due to proximity and the overall abundance of 13 year old girls

17. Two girls in glasses shop. Horse girl. Not her. Back turns me (B)

18. Walking set. Horse girl. Keeps walking (B)

19. Walking set. Horse girl. She speeds up (B)

20. Walking set. Horse Girl. Ignores me (B)

21. We walk into a bar. A group opens me, 3 women 2 guys. One girl is into my look, one dude is a dick to me (she calls him a dick) and the other guy says to me, I just met them. I greet him, and then proceed to ignore him while talking to this chic. She is seemingly drunk. She is starting a new business, and needs some web site creation, so I ask if she is starting to sell sex toys online. She grimaces. I mention sexual things a couple more times. More grimaces. I run the blender routine. She proclaims it isn't her. I'm done here (C>5)

22. 4 girls walking. Horse Girl. Walk with arm around girl a bit and stop them. We hug, the friends love it. Kino is a bit much maybe, and she pulls away with a "Nice to meet you." (C<5)

23. Two black girls. When I get up close they look to be 13 years old. Eject (C<5)

24. Two blond punk girls. Horse girl. They are tourists. I'm not clicking with them and they keep walking (C<5)

25. Cute girl watching some performers. Horse girl. Hug. Smart/Hot/Rich. In response to asking if she is rich, she says, if by rich you mean houses on the beach and private jets, then yes ;) We are vibing really well, playfully teasing each other. She is visiting from PA. Then she says she has to go and I see her walk off with Mom and Dad. (C>5)

Clearly stopping moving sets is an area I could improve

Back to the house for a break, and then out to some bars.
26. Outside Wangs, a woman is sitting on a wagon. I ask her how much they charge to valet that thing. Her friend is drunk and starts talking to me, and I pretty much don't understand anything she is saying, which cracks me up tremendously. (C<5)

27. A chic opens me with "you look really familiar." Oh yeah? Did we have sex? Because if we did, I'm really sorry I haven't called. She laughs. She has a lot of rings, and I take both of her hands in mine and check them out. One of them she bought at a concert for an obscure band, which I know. She is impressed. She asks if I know another fav band of hers, I don't, so I tell her she has to play me some of their music (seed for future meetup / pull.) We are going to another bar, so we invite her along. I grab her hand, and we walk holding hands a bit. Then with my hand on her neck. Then with my arm around her. We hang at this other bar a bit and get a drink. She had an open tab at Wangs, and forgot to close it, so I make a deal to buy her a drink and then she will buy me one when we get back to wangs. agreed. So we sit together, I put her leg over mine, rub her thigh, we chat about stuff. One of my friends asks what she does for a living, and she says have sex with women. Cool. We talk about snowboarding. I attempt to kiss her 3 times, no dice. On the way back to Wangs, I slap her on the ass. She likes it, so I press her up against a tree and do it again. She is sticking her ass out as a target, and I rub my hang against her pussy and slap her on the ass again, then pull her back into me and bite her on the neck. She says "i'm trying to resist your advances." I tell her cool, cuz that's all you get. A couple block later, I push her into an alcove and go for the kiss again. No dice. So I spank her. We talk for a bit about some Alicia Silverstone movie. "that's when I first realized I was attracted to women." I ask how many g/f's she has. Zero. She asks if I know any girls looking for a girlfriend. No, not a girlfriend. OK, how about to fuck? Yeah, I know a few of those, but it is really just for group activities (meaning 3-somes with me.) She says cool. I say, with no g/f, do you masturbate? Yup. I go through secret spots of the vagina. She says she can't have vaginal orgasms, and I shake my head and say you poor poor girl, and tell her a story about past g/fs that believe that too, until the day I taught them how. She talks about anal sex a bit. Now back at Wangs, she asks if I want that drink. Logistically, she has to leave in about 10 minutes as somebody is coming to pick her up. I decline, and say she can get me one later, I'm going to meet up with my friends. But we'll hang out soon, and then maybe I'll teach you to have a vaginal orgasms. She demurely says OK. Then I say kiss me, and she does, and I roll off to meet the rest of the guys (# / k)

28. girl in bar. HG. (B)

29. girl sitting down. I ask for a lot of compliance by asking her to stand up. Nope. (B)

30. Two black girls outside Wangs. One is looking at me like an ice cream cone. I walk up and put my arm around them and say, hello ladies. Jake P and I split them up and game them individually. I'm super dominant with her, and she guesses that I'm a Leo. I agree (because I am) but then she doesn't believe that really a Leo. I go to kiss her, and she pulls away, and says to me "but that isn't a rejection." I say whatever, I'm a Leo. (I don't know what that means, but she loved the confidence.) I'm super kino guy with her, and she says to me please don't touch my neck like that again, it will drive me crazy. So of course I do. And I also grab her arms and pin them behind her back and then start making out with her. Jake and I bounce them to a bar and sit in a dark corner and make out with them. Their logistics are messed up and they have to leave together on a bus in about 30 minutes. I go for boobs and pussy but no dice. (# / k)

31. Street 2-Set. I get through "Do you know who Oprah Winfrey is?" and the girl immediately says, "I'd eat her pussy!" I buy into her frame and own it, challenging her expertise in eating pussy. She says to me, I like your pink (my hair.) I tell her I like her pink too, and rub my hand between her legs. She takes a step back and flashes her panties. She says I look like I know my way around a pussy, and I pull her in and whisper in her ear, saying Girl, I am an expert with the pussy. I teach a class on advanced sexual techniques, and I start into secret spots of the vagina. She asks how she can get ahold of me later, and takes my number. I tell her I really only teach in 1:1 sessions. She starts to tell me her life story, and I say "this is the boring version of the story." How old were you when you lost your virginity? 15. What is your favorite position? On her bag, legs in the air, over the guys shoulder. So I push her up against a wall, and describe a bit how I would fuck her that way. She is from Georgia, and I tell her that I've never made out with a girl from Georgia before, so a make out ensues. She gets feisty and pulls on my jacket, bending a metal ring on it. I grab her hands and pin them down next to her, and tell her that is completely unacceptable behavior. She apologizes profusely, and says she has a pliers at home, so we can fix it. A pliers eh? Maybe I know a way you can make it up to me then... and I pull her breast out of her dress, and start tweaking on her nipple on the street. She tells me she is getting really horny. Yeah, that happens to girls around me. Jake P and I are analyzing the set and this girl and her friend start roaming down the street and we let them go (# / k) Our dialogue would probably have been better for another time, as we should have bounced them instead.

Jake P interacted with this girl in a completely different way as a demo. I took her sexual frame and ran with it. His first words to her: You're gross. Said in a serious way. She immediately began seeking repoire, and Jake said no, you're gross. I know what kind of girl you are, and I don't like it. You just say really sexual things to shock guys. She starts to kino him, and convince him that she isn't that kind of person. She verbally states, I like you. Jake and I later have a dialogue of this interaction. A girl like this is a specific profile. She uses sex talk and innuendo to plow over guys and intimidate. The way to handle this is with hard game. Genuinely and seriously disqualify her to break her frame. Make her chase for your attention and genuinely earn it. Girls that do this purely for validation will fold and blow them selves out. Girls that truly are confident will become real, and you can now engage in a real dialogue from a position of mutual respect.

Interestingly enough, the next night Jake brings this girl over to the PU Mansion and she blushes like crazy when she sees me. Haha. We are going to add her to our social circle to help get into better clubs

Monday, July 13, 2009

Workshop Friday night

We go out to a great club in Hollywood, with lots of beautiful babies. This place is always sweet on a Friday night

9. I start by opening two girls at the bar. Horse Girl. Hug. We are chatting nicely and I get interrupted by 3 girls pulling at my jacket. It is new and looks sweet as hell (C<5)

10. 3 girls pulling my jacket. I am at a loss for what to say, since 3 hot girls are standing around me in a circle touching me. I lose the previous set because these girls are demanding my attention with their kino. They ask if my nipples are pierced. I choke on all my words and eventually they go away. Ah well, that's what warm ups are for (C<5)

11. I open 2 girls with Oprah. They deny knowing who Oprah is and disappear (B)

12. Gabriel P tells me a girl is fucking me with her eyes. Horse Girl. Hug. We chat about music. I move to isolate her, but her friends say they just got to the club and have to be social. She asks if I'll be in this spot, and I say no I'll be socializing, but she gives me her # (#)

13. A guy opens me, in a group of 2 guys and 7 girls. One of the chics is wearing a dress that matches my look. I grab her and pull her from the other side of this circle of people so she is standing next to me with my arm around her. She starts repoire seeking, and we vibe on where we are from. We are future projecting going to Hawaii together, having sex on the beach. We kiss. Her friends want to go dance. Logistics are that she is visiting from Pittsburg and she has to stay with friends. (# close / k close)

14. I open a super tall hot blond, who towers over me by 12 inches. The details escape me (C<5)

15. Another tall girl opens me, asking if I'm somebody from a certain band. I say no. I start to run my own stuff on her and she loses interest. Gabriel and Jake help me analyze the set after, and a few actions need to change. 1. I was giving her too much attention, and need to mirror her body language. And 2, I should always say yes, I'm that guy from the band. This is confusion game at its finest (C<5)

16. Poker face opens a girl with HG. She doesn't like it, and he tells me she didn't get the joke. I go in with a "you didn't get the joke" opener. Smart tests. She bites HARD! Smart/Hot/Rich. She mentions she has a boyfriend. I do 8 girlfriends. She says she can't be my 9th girlfriend, and again mentions the boyfriend. She now has no value to me, so I leave (C>5)

At this point, it is 1:30 am, and I text the two girls I got numbers from. I hook back up with the girl that was eye fucking me earlier, and work on getting her and her 2 friends to the "after party." They go into the bathroom for about 17 hours, and come back out with other plans. I go home alone

Not a bad night. My presence is tight and I had people opening me all night, and I have some better ways of managing girls that open me going forward.

Friday, July 10, 2009

Thursday night warmup

Went out with Poker Face and Traveler

We stop by Happy Ending, it is pretty slow, so we start the walk to Cahuenga. On the way, we stop and some English Pub.

4. I vibe with the hostess. She is an English actress/waitress, and I tell her that I never get along with English people. I tell her I'm going to touch her boobs, and pick up her necklace and play with it. We have some good banter going back and forth, and I tell her to give me her #. She "can't" with her manager watching. I say I understand, that we can be discrete, and she writes her website down on a biz card and says really loud, here take a biz card and be sure to check us out again! (#)

5. We get to Wangs. Cute blond walking through. HG. Hug. We chat for about 15 minutes and she has to get back to friends (visiting from out of town.) (C>5)

6. We walk down the street. Two young girls walk by. I stop them, horse girl. My target is repoire seeking, and asks where I'm from. I tell her it is a long story. Her friend says she has to pee, but the target says she has time to hear the long version of my story. We make the friend wait to pee for about 10 minutes, then we part ways (C>5)

7. At Velvet. Standing 2-set. Horse girl. A 3rd girl comes in, and they push me towards her. She loves me. She asks when I was born, and I joke with her that this is a new version of the What's your sign pickup line. I ask, are you trying to pick me up?! Maybe. I love the word maybe. I want to use that more in set. She is 38 years old and looks it. She is fun, but I'm not feeling super into her, so I say adios and get a biz card from one girl for her Wed DJ gigs. (C>5)

8. Back at HE, a seated set. Girl heard HG before and tells me to go away, and threatens to call security. I attempt to say something like, Oh, I get it, you are one of those antisocial bar girls. She says no, I just don't like your creepy story. Go away. (B)

I'd been slacking for a few days, so it was good to get out again

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Wednesday night with the promoter

We went out with the Promoter on Wed. This was my first night out in some time

1. I open some random girl with HG. It isn't her (B)

2. Cute girls dancing. Situational opener about the fashion choices of a go-go dancer. We agree her boots are not cool. One girl disappears, the other hangs with me in a close talking / touching, almost slow dance position. Kino is strong. Her friend comes back and pulls her away (C<5)

3. We hang and chat with 3 girls for a long time. One of them is possibly a lesbian. I touch her boobs. They are boring (C>5)