It's Friday. There are loads of new people in town. We roll into the Planet Hollywood casino at around 11 pm, and the place is packed. There are hot girls roaming in packs everywhere you look.
I experienced a moderate level of anxiety tonight, both approach anxiety and venue anxiety. It was odd that all week I have wanted more hot girls to game, and then today I had some creative avoidance because some girls were TOO HOT. As a result of some venue anxiety, I think I spent more time hanging out with Joker in a chode circle than I would have in a place I was familiar with.
I also engaged in a bit of negative self talk. The anxiety probably resulted in me approaching with weak body language, I know for sure I wasn't projecting my voice which meant people couldn't hear as well, which meant I was getting more cold responses and blow outs, which meant I was feeling more anxiety about approaching. A vicious cycle. The way to reframe this: Blowouts are fun! It's true!
There were some amazingly hot girls that I didn't approach tonight. There was a group of blonds coming down an escalator, all of them 9's and 10's. When they approached, the music stopped, the lights dimmed, the seas parted, and the angels sang. And Nomad choked.
1. I hadn't done any warm ups yet, and Joker pushes me to go open a girl that just got off the stage. "I got a challenge for you." Horse Girl. She claims it isn't her, and I continue with the contingency. A co-worker greets her and pulls her away greet (B)
2. Outside the casino there are two women sitting at a round bar. Oprah Winfrey. Is this some kind of bad pickup line? It’s the worst pickup line in the world, but… plow. (C>5)
3. Hot blond walking across the casino. Horse Girl. She gives me the stiff arm and keeps walking. (B) I didn't realize this until writing my field report, but I saw her later in the night and she was looking so hot that I was afraid to approach. Real fear. Wow, I haven't felt that in awhile. That is how hot she was.
4. A hot black girl in a group of 4. Horse Girl. Hug. Two of the girls are in Vegas to celebrate their birthdays, so I hug both of them. I don't want the 4th girl to feel left out, so I hug her too. The conversation is platonic and AFC… I decide to leave (C<5) (Note to self… did I leave because I ran out of things to say? No. I left because I felt uncomfortable)
5. Girl dancing. Horse Girl. Lots of distractions. They ask me to take a picture, and I say no. But then I cave in and do it anyway, and I use my holding the camera as an opportunity to command some attention. Then I go to continue horse girl and touch the girl, and she says "Don't touch me!" in a really bitchy tone. I leave (B)
6. Four girls sitting by some video poker machines. Horse Girl. It isn't her. Why don't you go find another girl to tell this to, like you have been doing all night. I plow. Smart tests. Walk away, she says. Plow some more. Walk away, she says again. Alright, I guess you are the no sense of humor anti-social group. Have fun with your video poker (B)
7. Joker opens a 2 set. I'm talking to the fat girl. I guess this is why it is important to be the guy that opens :) Tangent: She is really easy to talk to, and I am trying to put my finger on what that means… what makes a person really easy to talk to? I want to be that person… A Master of Report (MOP.) Brad recommended How to Win Friends and Influence People. And now back to the action: These girls are from Wisconsin, and I'm just talking about a time when I lived there. For some reason, Wisconsin people seem to like meeting other Wisconsin people. Joker's girl has completely checked out of their interaction, and he and I are both now talking with the fat girl. I notice that the target looks a little like Kirsten Dunst, so as we are about to walk away I tell her that, and she lights up. I reach across to her and pull her towards me and Joker steps in and isolates us. She says she doesn't have her dimples, and I say you can get them surgically added. I'm done some plastic surgery myself. I'm just feeling good and she is laughing at my stories… I tell her about how I think St. Patties day in WI is the best… they dye the river green, everybody drinks beer and eats 17 polish sausages and bratwursts, and pukes all over the place. It smells great the next day. It's funny because it's true. Or about how you know you arrived in Milwaukee when you are saturated with the musty smell of beer mash. I modify Reckon/Yonder and just ask things like, what do you call those cans of Coca-Cola? Pop. What are those things at the airport that you drink water from? A water bubbler. Wisconsin words are really funny :) I am not being sexual though, and that is a weak point in this interaction. The fat friend already told me that she is single and they came to Vegas with that in mind. So I look at her necklace, which is genuinely cool, and then tell her I wasn't checking out her breasts. She laughs. I was enjoying talking with this girl, but Joker tells me he is bored, so instead of the two of us separating and me running the 2 set like a 1 set, I leave with Joker. In hindsight, that was a mistake. I hug the girl 3 times good-bye, get her number, get the cheek kiss, and leave her a funny mexican guy drunk dial before leaving. (#) Joker mentions that lots of people were walking by and looking at us oddly, like what the fuck are those hot dudes doing with that fat chic?
8. In the Heart Bar, there are 3 girls surrounded by a bunch of loser dudes. I go in and horse girl this chic with enormous tits. She forgives me, and we hug. But this girl is a master of testing… is this some kind of bad pickup line? It is the worst pickup line in the world. Oh, OK… and I continue. Smart Tests. I can't remember all of the tests she threw at me, but this girl was the master of banter lines. Shedding Cat. She tells me she gave the loser guys surrounding her a fake name. Brad Pitt. Something in the interaction has her say, I so want a divorce! Haha. I say I want my DVDs back, and she says she already burned them. (She is winning at this point :) ) That's OK, I already had sex with your sister… she is way better than you. Now she says, You need a trim, referring to my beard. I had been thinking the same thing myself, and I say so. She has these giant fun bags sticking out… I have my hand on her shoulder, and say are these things real? My shoulder? ;) These… and I put my hands out to touch her tits, and she deflects. I drink a lot of milk, it does the body good. I should have been more aggressive about it. Her friends are pulling her away, and she asks my real name. I tell her Brad Pitt. She asks again, and I tell her since she seems so into me, I'll give it to her… It's Nomad. I use the One Night Stand # close, and she says maybe she will see me here tomorrow. (C>5) We see them again later, and she says, Nomad are you stalking me? Haha, she uses all of our lines. I take the frame and say don't make me get a restraining order. I go for the # again, and again I'm rebuffed
9. Joker opens a girl and I start vibing with the friends. One of them is giving me the eye, and I give her the eye back, and start lifting my eyebrows up and down. She does the same, and I walk up to her and start getting physical… You want to take this outside? She gets this look on her face, and I think she might be ready to throw up on me… but then she makes a fist and takes a pretend swing at me. We vibe a bit, and she is living in Long Beach and is in Hollywood every weekend. I go for the #, and she tells me she is into girls. I say Me Too! (#)
10. Drunk girl with big tits. Joker already approached her with Horse Girl. I approach her with Sex Last Week. She is too drunk to pay attention, but she is like, Oh, what did I do now? I should have just rolled with that, and said you are in trouble little girl and slapped her on the ass. Instead I tried to continue the opener, and she lost focus (B)
11. A girl in a backless top and black shorts is standing alone in the Heart Bar. I creatively avoid for a minute, assuming she is a hoe. But Joker harasses me, and in I go. Sex Last Week. She isn't super responsive, and I am feeling like I am getting blown out (perhaps even assuming that is what is going to happen.) But I plow, and go into Smart Tests. And then I ask her what she is doing in Vegas, and she says "Do you want the honest answer?" Sure (OK, here it comes, she is a hoe.) "My boyfriend and I broke up yesterday, and I'm here to get over it." I am now assuming that is girl code for, I'm down to fuck. I was generally non-reactive to that, saying something like, Yeah, that is important sometimes. You definitely came to the right place. Then I glossed over it and continued with general banter. I give her a high five for something, and hers is weak, so I teach her how to high five with a slap on the ass. She agrees that was a good spanking. I tell her that her hair would be good for pulling, and demo by giving it a nice tug. She responds by telling me her hair is normally curly. I get more physical and pull her into me, putting her arms around my neck, and then biting her on the neck. She says, You'll leave a mark, I'm a teacher! I tell her I'm good at leaving no evidence, and kiss her on the neck again. She mentions some logistics… which means she is thinking about sex… she is staying in a room 15 miles away with 4 other people, including a couple dudes. I say that I am staying upstairs. She tells me that the past three guys she was with told her that they loved her within 3 weeks of dating… I didn't really respond to that very well, saying something like we wouldn't know each other for 3 weeks. I also told her that the best way to get over her ex was to have sex with me, which was a banter line I saw somewhere on attraction forums before. She didn't like it. She said she used to have casual sex, but now she isn't into it. OK… I'm not looking for that either, maybe more like 2 or 3 nights. Now she steps away and says she is going… and she hopes I get laid tonight, since that is what I am looking for. Oops. She got dumped, wanted to "get over it", started seeking some validation, and I gave it to her. Instead of making her chase me, I jumped up and down like a little kid and said, ooh, me me me. (C>5)
I was feeling generally down about the night. Joker and I sat down and did a post mortem. We got more sexual, got more attraction as a result, and then just missed the end goal of getting laid. Giving girls validation is a mistake, and now having experienced it in the first person, I plan to not make that mistake again.
11 sets
B - 5
C<5 - 1
C>5 - 3
# - 2
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